A Season of Gratefulness

Expressing Our Thanks to Those Who Have Positively Impacted Our DCC Journeys

Compiled by Miriam Bernard

As the Thanksgiving season arrives, the NODCC is taking time to reflect on the many people whose kindness, dedication, and understanding help knit our community together. Gratitude is more than an emotion; it is a recognition of connection, of those who lift us up and walk beside us. Recently, we reached out to our community through social media and our newsletter, asking who has had the greatest impact on you and your family during your DCC journey, and we’re pleased to share the following five responses, which aptly demonstrate how no one walks this path alone.

Brettin White Fox
For Brettin White Fox, gratitude begins with the Little Light House in Tulsa and Sooner Start, their state’s early intervention program. Brettin shared, “I’m grateful for all the staff and families at the Little Light House here in Tulsa. This phenomenal institution has been around for decades, serving children and families with special needs and disabilities through early intervention and community building programs. Through our involvement at the Little Light House, we have gotten to know other families with children with disabilities and even formed a group specific to DCC diagnoses. Getting to interact with people who live here and not just through the internet has been so wonderful for our family. Teddy loves his friends and teachers there! Another group is our state’s early intervention program, Sooner Start. Our therapist Katie Foote has been so helpful at all stages of Teddy’s growth and development, and I regularly send her texts about exciting gains Teddy is making. Outside of our family, I feel like she is our biggest cheerleader.”

Estia Vonken
For Estia Vonken, having someone who understands the DCC journey firsthand has made all the difference. She writes, “I’m thankful for Kristina D., because it is so nice to have a good friend who also has a child with a DCC and lives nearby. It’s so valuable to be able to share experiences. I love you Kris!” Estia’s words beautifully capture the value of companionship built on shared understanding.

Abby Koors
Abby Koors expresses her appreciation for the steady guidance and encouragement of her parents: “I’m so thankful for my parents, who helped me learn about my disorder and also encouraged me to do things that were hard but helped me in so many ways.” Their belief in Abby’s abilities helped shape her confidence and resilience.

Alexa Smith
For Alexa Smith, gratitude is centered on her long-standing friendship with Sarah Mellnik, who has been a positive force throughout her life and involvement with the NODCC. “Sarah Mellnik has the greatest positive impact on me while navigating my DCC journey. When I was young, during the Texas conference in the early 2000s when I was 4-5, Sarah came to visit everyone in the day camp but she especially made me feel like a sibling and not just another person who just happened to have a DCC like her. As I’ve gotten older, we kept that same energy by utilizing social media and video chats any chance we can. When I became an adult, she effortlessly helped me get engaged in the organization more, and I am immensely grateful for that. A fond tradition at almost every conference is getting a photo together to remember the conference by. We have at least attended 12 conferences (give or take a few) together.

Tami Black
Tami Black reflects on the foundational impact of Dr. Lynn Paul, whose expertise and compassion shaped her understanding of her diagnosis and opened pathways to growth. “Dr. Lynn Paul has had the greatest impact on me. As an adult, my diagnosis occurred after a public event that introduced me to my state’s legal system. With her initial help with diagnosis, later invitations to be a participant in research studies, and introduction to the concepts of DBT, mindfulness, she helped show me the way. It has been 18 years since my diagnosis and my introduction to the NODCC and Dr. Paul. I can say she laid the foundations for me to succeed. I have celebrated progressively positive career advancement along with having celebrated my 22nd wedding anniversary this past year. Thank you Dr. Paul.”As we enter this season of reflection and thankfulness, we invite our community to pause and remember the people who have made a difference in their lives: family, friends, educators, medical professionals, mentors, or the everyday heroes who offer small acts of kindness that leave a lasting impact. Consider reaching out to them in the form of a quick email or text expressing your gratitude. You’d be surprised how powerful this small, simple act can be. From all of us at the NODCC, we wish you a warm, joyful, and meaningful Thanksgiving. May this season inspire connection and gratitude for you and your loved ones!